LIFE'S BETTER IN THE MOUNTAINS

Friday, December 21, 2018

Lucy and Violet Again

We still have a good bit of snow lingering on the ground.  The good and bad news is that it is raining and expected to continue to do so for the next several days.  It will definitely help melt the remaining snow but will also cause flash flooding in our mountains.  At least the weather is not going to drop below freezing.

Lucy does not like the snow at all.  She doesn't even like fluffy snow and she certainly does not like the heavy, icy stuff we got last week.  She no longer runs in the snow but walks gingerly and clearly wants to come back inside as soon as possible.  Our maintenance crew made a sweep with the plow while my husband had Lucy out.  He stopped and asked if we would like for him to plow a swath on our lot for Lucy.  He did and it was so much nicer for Lucy to have a relatively snow-free space for her business,

Lucy walks carefully in the icy snow



Her attention momentarily drawn to some passing deer.


I mentioned in a previous post that our son and his wife think all toys should be considered gender neutral.  Boys should freely play with dolls and girls with big trucks.  We buy new toys to keep here since they usually fly down to visit.  Before their visit in November, we bought Violet a baby doll and a little stroller, along with some stacking rings.  (I had to bless the stroller after the adjectives my husband used when assembling it.)  We knew she would love to push the stroller empty or full.  We figured she would treat the doll like any other stuffed animal.  To our surprise, she seemed to know just how to cuddle and rock the  doll.  She always placed it in the little stroller properly, never facing backward.

It became clear that dolly was not going to remain with us, but would go home with Violet. She held her on the plane and periodically held her up to look out the window.  When she first awakens she wants dolly.  Violet awakens slowly and needs quiet time to come to life.  She sits in Mommy's arms for a while and then she holds dolly while they prepare her Sippy cup of milk.

Not much for posing first thing in the morning

This little girl has brought so much happiness to so many of us.  Words cannot express our gratitude and admiration for the courageous woman who gave birth to this wonderful child.  And the adoption agency that placed her into our lives.  It is a miracle indeed.

Today's quote is again from philosopher Marcus Aurelius and it is particularly appropriate at this Christmas season:

"Very little is needed to make a happy life;
It is all within yourself,
In your way of thinking."

So let's not get caught up in things this joyous season.  As the old saying goes, "the most important things in life are not things,"



HAVE A MOST WONDERFUL WEEK
THE DAYS WILL GET BRIGHTER
HAPPY SOLSTICE!

9 comments:

Barbara Rogers said...

Have a happy solstice, and Christmas too!

Arkansas Patti said...

What a cool guy that maintenance man was to clear a path for Lucy. Few would have thought to do that.
Love that casual pose with her dolly. Interesting that she seems to know what to do at such a young age. A natural mom.

Beatrice P. Boyd said...

Belated Happy Solistice to you as well. It’s always nice to read about Lucy and Violet and together in one post was a bonus. I agree with Lucy that walking in snow is no longer fun, so nice that she had a plowed area and kudos to that thoughtful maintenance guy. We celebrated the Solistice by inviting neighbors who live here in the mill apts over for homemade soup and bread and cookies. We knew both of these residents, but they had not met before so it was a nice get together.

Anonymous said...

Happy solstice to you and your beautiful family. I love the maintenance man story. That's a true kindness. And I love seeing Violet with her doll. It truly is the season of happiness.

Nance said...

How kind of the man to consider Lucy! He must also own a dog or at least be a very thoughtful Pet Appreciator.

Enjoy a Special Christmas with your family.

Vicki Lane said...

What a blessing Violet is! And, as you say, much admiration and thanks for her birth mother's decision!

Joared said...

Viewing earlier photos of your granddaughter -- so cute! Sounds wise for children to have a choice of all toys whatever association they may have with any gender. I never liked dolls as a little girl, though I had one, clothes for her and a baby buggy. I wanted and soon had paper dolls, but they were of young adults. I loved my little teddy bear, reluctantly gave him up to comfort a whining little puppy who missed his mother. I was disappointed that my bear became so soiled and could no longer be returned to me. Amazing that I still think of him at my age. The dog was supposed to be mine, but, of course, they gravitate to whoever feeds them, so he always was really my Moms though I enjoyed him. The one dog that was truly mine I've never forgotten I had to give up when I was a young girl which I wrote about a few years ago in a blog post.

Goldendaze-Ginnie said...

I always love to see pictures of Lucy and remember how she and Ellie were such a big part of your blog entries. Violet is sure to bring her own brand of joy. Sending lots of holiday greetings and all the best for the New Year.

KB said...

Aw, what a wonderful worker who plowed a swath for Lucy. He is so thoughtful. We always use snowshoes to stomp down an area for our pups after a big snow... but a plow is MUCH better :)

I love your son's approach... I would have loved to be his daughter because I wouldn't have received quite so many dolls that I never played with. Violet will truly be free to choose her own way with so many options open to her.

I am so happy for your family that Violet is now a beloved part of it.